The terror attacks of jealous girls

Due to jealousy, hit 9th grade female students and female students grades 7 forced sleeping pills in the toilet, because the 2 girls jealous for stabbing another hairpin, torturing his girlfriend for prettier ...

This is one of the information that the teacher told the workshop "Building the project model schools safe and friendly girl" by Hanoi Department of Education, Department of Foreign Affairs and Plan in jointly held in Hanoi on 11/6.

According to the Department of Education and Training Hanoi, Hanoi currently has nearly 322 thousand students (HS) junior-level women, accounting for 48% of all HS level, this ratio is high at nearly 53%. School violence attacks on female students have tended to increase, leaving serious consequences, serious psychological for girls aged adolescents. At the conference, leaders of Secondary School Duong Quang, Gia Lam district recounts the work of the female students had a long fight but still obsessed with teachers and students in schools. Specifically, the academic year 2010 - 2011, HS 9th grade girls beat 7th grade female students and forced sleeping pills in the toilet. The reason is that misunderstanding HS 9th grade female students grades 7 women robbed her lover so this HS 9th grade you have to bring a different type of coal the other 7th graders in the toilet, and then threaten and force sleeping pill. Being informed about the incident that serious, the school administrators, teachers, security guards were down right place to resolve the matter promptly.

More frightening to hear high school leader Kim Anh - including Soc Son, at the school a few years before the occurrence of such cases due to a conflict between two students, in groups of 2 to 2 other top HS female appointment to the furthest point and jumped into the fighting groups, such as the HS male punch. Due to the location near the battalion fighting should be the focus of the intervention team and the school newspaper; Department 2nd case 2 HS is jealous women fighting for hairpin stabbing you. The most recent was the lovelorn female student carrying bottles of wine, 2 cups and knives into the drink ...

Leader Kim English High School, said: "For the girls are not just a matter of physical safety is not the main issue is that the mental element, the bad phenomena, the issue of unfair harm caused they are elated thoughts, understanding deviations thoughtless actions ... This is an issue we are concerned, because of the heart I think we do not know it all, do not control and are difficult to quantify before the incident. "

Also in Kien Hung Secondary School (Ha Dong), Loan Nguyen Thi Bach said: "A number of secondary school pupils affected by Kien Hung from family, society and to assert his ego to have caught in the forms of violence such as beating, torturing you that just because you prettier, better in school, have better personal ... We went even have scoffed, bullying, both in the classroom and on the way to school about because the words, vague comment. There are some girls you male or larger class put him on the toilet last recess or acting lessons to Sam So ... ".

She Loan said that when the incident occurred, some of them did not report for teachers or parents to know. In order to satisfy the selfish thoughts, narrow-minded, they think that fighting, isolated, insulted your friend is right, not wrong for doing so is to protect the love of his position before of you. Even, they also entice, encourage, cheer for the wrong job. Most of you know the misconduct but did not dare to speak out for fear of reprisals. Only some of them disagreed attitude and inform teachers, parents said.

Opinion of many representatives have confirmed the need for special attention to female students, to avoid damage to your body and spirit. The current reality, outside of school violence, many female students are also psychiatric disturbances, increased risk of sexual abuse ...

Stretching his "fight" with school violence

According to statistics from the hotline of the Department for Protection of Child Care in 2012 to end violence in schools saw an increase of 13 times compared to 10 years ago.

A survey by the Department of Sociology, University of Science XHNV - University QGHN done 2 years ago in high school, Dong Da district (Hanoi) on violence female students showed disturbing results. Specifically, up to 96.7% of students in the sample were asked for that in case you are going to fight the phenomenon of female students. The level of violence in girls was 44.7% very often, 38% often and 17.3% occasionally.

Provide solutions to address violence in female student, teacher Nguyen Thi Bach Loan - Kien Hung Secondary School, said: "The school has made 9 solution to prevent this situation, including the award such measures invited psychologists to talk to children about sex, life skills integrated into the courses, establishment of psychological counseling on campus, suggestion box ... Especially the school, as important homeroom teachers for the homeroom teacher as a mother of HS 2nd, followed closely by children. However, she Loan, the school still faces barriers from the non-cooperation of parents and students. "

With a view to take the fight to build Ocean View Junior High School (Gia Lam) 10 even offer solutions to prevent school violence. In particular, solutions are critical establishment and rapid response training under the guidance of the police to respond promptly, quickly making concrete plans to solve the case, integration of education life skills, thematic organization "Students, students say no to violence".

Besides, the construction of the psychological profile of the HS is not good and the students have higher risk of violence to capture the psychological processes of children to take measures to encourage timely redress ... At Also, in conjunction with the Board of Representatives HS Parents provide documentation, advocacy organizations preventing school violence to 100% HS parents to improve parental understanding of the psychological characteristics of age young member.